I am an unstoppable warrior...strong and fearless


       I live with courage and compassion in my heart.


             I wear my confidence like a shield to deflect all                         negativity.


I am powerful and proud of who I am and what I do.


        I wake up each day positive and ready to take on                     the day ahead

                                      because

                                                I am on a mission to achieve my goals and 


                                   I will not allow anyone or anyone to stop me!

Things that I Think Should Matter

It doesn't matter -

          if your hair isn't really straight... Embrace the curls!

          if you don't own your home... If you have a roof over your head, you're winning.

          if you're single and not dating... You don't need anyone to complete you - that's a myth!

          if you ate the cake...or the cookie....or the cake and the cookie....

          if you have laugh lines...They're your celebrations of a life well-lived!

          if nobody pressed like on your posts or you don't have a zillion followers.... Who cares!!

          if you messed up... Learn from the lesson and move on!!

          if your stomach isn't flat as a board... It doesn't matter if it is, either.

          if you feel different to others...You're YOU... You're AWESOME!!!

          if you feel like you can't please everyone... No one can...and it's okay!!!

          if you got upset, emotional, grouchy... You're human, NOT a robot.

This is what SHOULD matter -

          Laugh at yourself.

          Always choose the adventure, that's where the magic is.

          "Love all your curves, all your edges, all your perfect imperfections."

          Flawless becomes boring after a while....loving yourself is sexy as hell!

          Notice nature. Let it show you all its wonder!

          Be brave enough to be vulnerable!

          Celebrate your flaws until they no longer frighten you.

          Look up. See the sky. Isn't it so amazing?

          Dance. Sing. Shame is like fear - they're both liars.

          Live to the fullest extent of who you are. Even when it's uncomfortable. (Especially                                       then!)

          Daydream. Every day. It's not ever a waste of time.

          Never be defined by someone else's opinion of you, much less reduced by it.

          

When we embrace who we are, when we say NO to worry and fear, when we say YES to our imperfections, we begin to find that life is far more fun. When we are crying with laughter, do we really care if we don't have a washboard stomach?

Let's stop being afraid of our thighs and cellulite and start being blown away by our beauty. WE ARE FABULOUS and the world should know!!!

About Me

• The tapestry of my life is colorful and vibrant. Even though, we did not have that much money, we managed to get by on what we did have...and you know what, I never felt lacking or disadvantaged in any way. 

  
  
  

  
  

  
  

  My parents and my coterie of loving relatives taught me to have respect for myself and for others no matter what. We are a very close-knit family. My mom instilled discipline and age-old values while my dad endowed me with a laid-back and accepting attitude for others whether they deserve it or not.

  
  

  
  

  I may not have a rich, abundant life in the financial sense, but I'm proud to say I have lived a good, blessed life!

  
  

  I am enthusiastic about taking up new challenges. I am passionate about reading, writing, movies, music, and cooking. I don't quarrel with my faith, I love the confidence in me - the confidence stemming not from having all the answers or from always being right...but, the confidence that comes from being open to all the questions and not fearing to be wrong or of making mistakes.

  
  

  Just like everyone else, I have fears and flaws...I was born with them. However, I don't wear masks and I admit my faults. I live by the adage: "You get what you see when you see what I've got!" I am and forever will be an optimist and I will always take as a gift whatever each day brings forth!

  
  

  I believe in 3 basic principles:

  1. God will make all things beautiful in His time...just wait upon the Lord!

  2. My family is the best treasure that God gave me.

  3. Love brings out the best and the worst in us...so we have to be strong enough!

  
  

  I am interested in life, ideas, culture, travel, music, and nature. Butterflies are symbolic of the life I have made and lived. I don't like cockroaches,snakes, slime and I particularly detest gossip, envy, conceit and LIES!I get really angry when other people discuss me or my life as if they have a right to or they know everything about me. I refuse to deal with capricious and demanding people, rudeness, and petty jealousy in people with small minds and even smaller attitudes. Sometimes, I pretend I have the power to change the world and people so everything and everyone will just be good and I would like to make each one see LOVE and PAIN so they will be more careful about what they do and say.I worry that my decisions and actions may have repercussions in the life and future of Joshua and Joseph. Sad movies, wasted dreams, broken promises make me cry. I dream that someday everything will work out right.

  
  

  B - brave

  E - endearing

  V - vibrant and vivacious

  E - engaging

  R - responsible

  L - loyal to a fault

  Y - youthful

  
  

  M - memorable

  A - articulate

  R - resolute

  C - conservative

  E - emphatic

  L - long-suffering

  A - artistic

  
  

  M - mediatrix

  A - accommodating

  H - homebody

  I - intuitive and independent

  N - natural

  A - argumentative

  Y - yielding

  
  

  P - persistent,persevering

  A - achiever

  S - survivor

  T - trustworthy

  O - optimistic

  R - romantic...

FAVORITE QUOTES

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  I have no illusions...my life isn't perfect. I've made a lot of mistakes and wrong decisions. However, I've tried my best to stand every time I fall and rectify the wrongs I did. I've never lost my faith in people nor my belief in God. I can't have everything I want. But, I make sure that I am kind, I care, and I am sensitive to everyone I meet. When I die, I know people will say, they will miss me and their life changed because of me.